Italian Mama and author Stacey Wilk is one tough cookie when it comes to friendship. “Friendships are disposable,” she writes, “like paper plates.”
She’s not alone.
Social media posts, quotes, and related articles often remind me that one’s circle of friends typically shrinks with age. People come in and out of our lives depending upon the circumstance and purpose.
As one who didn’t learn how to be a good friend until well into adulthood, I think mindless disposal is a shame. You never know what weight the plate carried in the past. I’d like to hope that with a wipe down, delicate wash, or elbow grease most friendships are recyclable.
So what’s in your cupboard? Paper? Stoneware? Or perhaps, plastic? You know the plates; shiny, sturdy glorified paper disguised as stoneware.
Red Said What? 
Red, thank you for the reblog. I’m eternally grateful. None of us are perfect friends. I am sure I have been nothing more than a napkin to some along the way. But what I think is beautiful, is when you need this person most they come into your life. A friendship might not be recyclable, and some will be, but if we go through this world with kindness in our hearts, then the Universe will bring us the people who add value to our lives. It’s okay to take time to learn to be a good friend. And I am very grateful for your friendship in my life. It arrived when I needed it most. If you hadn’t been the person you were before I wouldn’t get to benefit from you being in my life now.
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Jesus said the kingdom of God is like a mustard seed a small seed becomes the largest bush so is a friendship it’s all what we put into it . Love can conquer all and overcome all no one is disposable everyone can be redeemed
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Dennis, I’ve been thinking a lot about your comment. I hope you’ll let me clarify. I never said people were disposable. Friendships are. No one is all good or all bad. Just because I might not get along with someone doesn’t mean there aren’t others who love and adore that person. It also doesn’t mean because we don’t get along now we can’t get along in the future. If the Universe puts us on a path together it’s for a reason and when that reason ends the paths veer off in other directions. I am a believer that not all friendships are meant to last. Like paper plates.
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Good one Jen! Love it.
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Thanks! Me too. Was thinking of you this weekend. Attended NJ SCBWI Conference :-).
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I just read Tara Lazar’s wrap up…looks like it was a good one. I see good news in your future! PB or MG – I’m not quite sure yet…
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Donna, I don’t know how you know that, but it’s the best news I heard all weekend :-). Maybe I should split the difference and write a CB. It’s always a good conference. Be well!
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